Once upon a time a big monk and a little monk were travelling together. They came to the bank of a river and found the bridge damaged. They had to wade across the river. There was a pretty lady who was stuck at the damaged bridge and couldn't cross the river. The big monk offered to carry the pretty lady across the river on his back. The lady accepted. The little monk was shocked by the move of the big monk. "How can big disciple brother carry a lady when we are supposed to avoid all intimacy with females?" thought the little monk. But he kept quiet. The big monk carried the lady across the river and the small monk followed unhappily. When they crossed the river, the big monk let the lady down and they parted ways with her. All along the way for several miles, the little monk was very unhappy with the act of the big monk. He was making up all kinds of accusations about the big monk in his head. This got him madder and madder. But he still kept quiet. And the big monk had no inclination to explain his situation. Finally, at a rest point many hours later,the little monk could not stand it any further, he burst out angrily at the big monk.? "Howcan you claim yourself a devout monk, when you seize the first opportunity to touch a female, especially when she is very pretty? All your teachings to me make you a big hypocrite." The big monk looked surprised and said,"I had put down the pretty lady at the river bank many hours ago,how come you are still carrying her along?"
[This very old Chinese zen story reflects the thinking of many people today.We encounter many unpleasant things in our life, they irritate us and they make us angry. Sometimes, they cause us a lot of hurt, sometimes they cause us to be bitter or jealous. But like the little monk, we are not willing to let them go away. We keep on carrying the baggage of the"pretty lady" with us. We let them keep on coming back to hurt us, make us angry, make us bitter and cause us a lot of agony. Why? Simply?because we are not willing to put down or let go of the baggage of the"pretty lady". We should let go of the "pretty lady" immediately after crossing the river, immediately after the unpleasant event is over. This will immediately remove all our agonies. There is no need to be further hurt by the unpleasant event after it is over. It is just that simple. =)
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Friday, September 29, 2006
Wednesday, September 27, 2006
haiz!!!
today kanna scolded by ms chee.. although not scolding me.. but i fell like hurt.. onli 32 more days to O level.. haiz!!!
korkor is goin to cambodia from 29 to 13.. sobsob!!!
goin there to help those ppl with elephantiatis..
also dunno wad..
hope he dun get some kinda weird illiness from there..
GOD BLESS!!!
if not like last yr birthday stay at home got chicken pox..
then tis yr got weird disease..
althought his lecture is doctor..
but i still BU FANG XIN!!!
GOD BLESS!!!
i am goin to MISS HIM..
he said he will miss him..
we shall see.. =)
when am i goin to get my prelims results.. ARGH!!!
STRESS =(
"O" practical is on 19 OCT
"O" paper starts from 30-20NOV
ENJOY!!
~class chalet is on either days from 22-26NOV!!!
~temasek poly intro course camp is on 29-1DEC!!!
~baobei de birthday is on 6DEC!!!
~VIP is on 8-10 DEC!!!
~MY BIRTHDAY is on 14DEC!!!
~Chrismas is on 25DEC!!!
~dominic de birthday is on 30DEC!!!
korkor is goin to cambodia from 29 to 13.. sobsob!!!
goin there to help those ppl with elephantiatis..
also dunno wad..
hope he dun get some kinda weird illiness from there..
GOD BLESS!!!
if not like last yr birthday stay at home got chicken pox..
then tis yr got weird disease..
althought his lecture is doctor..
but i still BU FANG XIN!!!
GOD BLESS!!!
i am goin to MISS HIM..
he said he will miss him..
we shall see.. =)
when am i goin to get my prelims results.. ARGH!!!
STRESS =(
"O" practical is on 19 OCT
"O" paper starts from 30-20NOV
ENJOY!!
~class chalet is on either days from 22-26NOV!!!
~temasek poly intro course camp is on 29-1DEC!!!
~baobei de birthday is on 6DEC!!!
~VIP is on 8-10 DEC!!!
~MY BIRTHDAY is on 14DEC!!!
~Chrismas is on 25DEC!!!
~dominic de birthday is on 30DEC!!!
Friday, September 22, 2006
prelims over!!!
finally prelim is over..But wad.. i thought through and regreted..
i couldn't really manage myself in the prelim.. feeling like why did i come back 4 my Os and struggling.. maybe i should go to ITE when i get my 4N results.. then i will firstly join VIP already.. and not participate in FDC06 and make myself have regrets.. and able to "enjoy" life with my kor goin to TG "biao yi" training.. then i will not be stress on my prelims marks.. AND NOT BROKE DOWN AND CRIED DURING MATHS PAPER 2.. i am 100% sure i am not goin to do well.. but how?? really regreted.. HAIZ!!!
since i am already here and onli 35 more days to O level.. i should put in my 101% and do it once and well.. no matter wad will be the outcome.. i think i did my best.. life is short so live with no regrets MARY!!! 35 more days onli.. just hang-on its either u go it or break it.. JIAYOU
**The only place success comes before work is in the dictionary**
i couldn't really manage myself in the prelim.. feeling like why did i come back 4 my Os and struggling.. maybe i should go to ITE when i get my 4N results.. then i will firstly join VIP already.. and not participate in FDC06 and make myself have regrets.. and able to "enjoy" life with my kor goin to TG "biao yi" training.. then i will not be stress on my prelims marks.. AND NOT BROKE DOWN AND CRIED DURING MATHS PAPER 2.. i am 100% sure i am not goin to do well.. but how?? really regreted.. HAIZ!!!
since i am already here and onli 35 more days to O level.. i should put in my 101% and do it once and well.. no matter wad will be the outcome.. i think i did my best.. life is short so live with no regrets MARY!!! 35 more days onli.. just hang-on its either u go it or break it.. JIAYOU
**The only place success comes before work is in the dictionary**
Saturday, September 16, 2006
GAME!! TRY IT!!!
NO CHEATING!!!!
THIS GAME HAS A FUNNY / CREEPY OUTCOME.
DO NOT READ AHEAD, JUST DO IT.
IT TAKES ABOUT 3 MINUTES - WORTH A TRY
1st. Get PEN and PAPER
2nd. WHEN CHOOSING NAMES, MAKE SURE THEY ARE REAL PEOPLE THAT YOU ACTUALLY KNOW
3rd. GO WITH YOUR FIRST INSTINCTS !!!!! Very important for good results.
4th SCROLL DOWN ONE LINE AT THE TIME DON`T READ AHEAD otherwise YOU WILL RUIN THE FUN.
1. On a blank sheet of paper, WRITE NUMBERS 1 to 11 in a COLUMN on the LEFT.
2. Next to the NUMBERS 1 & 2, WRITE DOWN ANY 2 NUMBERS YOU WANT. DO YOU HAVE A FAVORITE NUMBER?
3. Next to the NUMBERS 3 & 7, WRITE DOWN THE NAMES OF TWO MEMBERS OF THE OPPOSITE SEX. CAUTION: DO NOT LOOK AHEAD or IT WILL NOT TURN OUT RIGHT
4. WRITE ANYONES NAME (like FRIENDS or FAMILY...) next to 4, 5, & 6.DON`T CHEAT OR YOU`LL BE UPSET THAT YOU DID
5. WRITE down FOUR SONG TITLES in 8, 9, 10,& 11
6. Finally,MAKE A WISH ARE YOU READY? HERE IS THE KEY TO THE GAME
ANSWER
1. THE NUMBER of PEOPLE THAT LIKE YOU is found inSPACE 2
2. THE PERSON IN SPACE 3 IS THE ONE YOU LOVE
3. THE PERSON YOU LIKE but your relationship CANNOT WORK is in SPACE 7
4. YOU CARE MOST about the PERSON you putin SPACE 4
5. THE PERSON YOU NAME IN NUMBER 5 IS THE ONE WHO KNOWS YOU VERY WELL.
6. THE PERSON YOU NAMED IN 6 IS YOUR LUCKY STAR
7. THE SONG IN 8 IS THE SONG THAT MATCHES WITH THE PERSON IN NUMBER 3
8. THE TITLE IN 9 IS THE SONG FOR THE PERSON IN 7
9. THE 10TH SPACE IS THE SONG THAT TELLS YOU MOST ABOUT YOUR MIND
10.AND 11 IS THE SONG TELLING HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT LIFE
11. NUMBER 1 IS YOURLUCKY NUMBER true riite. ??
hahas.
MY ANSWER
1) tHrEe - 3
2) FouRteEn - 3
3) my korkor
4) baoxin
5) janice
6) persis
7) mr vincent lim
8) superwoman
9) Down
10) 陌生人
11) 我们怎么了
my answers r quite true..
-(1) is my lucky nos.. my O level no
-(2) not really true
-(3) of course i love my korkor..
-(7) mr vincent lim i love him.. but he is teacher.. so cannot work 101%
-(4) i care most bout baoxin ok ba.. not most..
-(5) janice knows me very well.. tat must ask her..
-(6) persis is my lucky star.. READ HERE!!!
-(8) korkor is superwoman hMmm??
-(9) mr lim is down?? how i know??
-(10) 陌生人 is in my mind.. not really..
-(11) 我们怎么了 is my like now..
THIS GAME HAS A FUNNY / CREEPY OUTCOME.
DO NOT READ AHEAD, JUST DO IT.
IT TAKES ABOUT 3 MINUTES - WORTH A TRY
1st. Get PEN and PAPER
2nd. WHEN CHOOSING NAMES, MAKE SURE THEY ARE REAL PEOPLE THAT YOU ACTUALLY KNOW
3rd. GO WITH YOUR FIRST INSTINCTS !!!!! Very important for good results.
4th SCROLL DOWN ONE LINE AT THE TIME DON`T READ AHEAD otherwise YOU WILL RUIN THE FUN.
1. On a blank sheet of paper, WRITE NUMBERS 1 to 11 in a COLUMN on the LEFT.
2. Next to the NUMBERS 1 & 2, WRITE DOWN ANY 2 NUMBERS YOU WANT. DO YOU HAVE A FAVORITE NUMBER?
3. Next to the NUMBERS 3 & 7, WRITE DOWN THE NAMES OF TWO MEMBERS OF THE OPPOSITE SEX. CAUTION: DO NOT LOOK AHEAD or IT WILL NOT TURN OUT RIGHT
4. WRITE ANYONES NAME (like FRIENDS or FAMILY...) next to 4, 5, & 6.DON`T CHEAT OR YOU`LL BE UPSET THAT YOU DID
5. WRITE down FOUR SONG TITLES in 8, 9, 10,& 11
6. Finally,MAKE A WISH ARE YOU READY? HERE IS THE KEY TO THE GAME
ANSWER
1. THE NUMBER of PEOPLE THAT LIKE YOU is found inSPACE 2
2. THE PERSON IN SPACE 3 IS THE ONE YOU LOVE
3. THE PERSON YOU LIKE but your relationship CANNOT WORK is in SPACE 7
4. YOU CARE MOST about the PERSON you putin SPACE 4
5. THE PERSON YOU NAME IN NUMBER 5 IS THE ONE WHO KNOWS YOU VERY WELL.
6. THE PERSON YOU NAMED IN 6 IS YOUR LUCKY STAR
7. THE SONG IN 8 IS THE SONG THAT MATCHES WITH THE PERSON IN NUMBER 3
8. THE TITLE IN 9 IS THE SONG FOR THE PERSON IN 7
9. THE 10TH SPACE IS THE SONG THAT TELLS YOU MOST ABOUT YOUR MIND
10.AND 11 IS THE SONG TELLING HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT LIFE
11. NUMBER 1 IS YOURLUCKY NUMBER true riite. ??
hahas.
MY ANSWER
1) tHrEe - 3
2) FouRteEn - 3
3) my korkor
4) baoxin
5) janice
6) persis
7) mr vincent lim
8) superwoman
9) Down
10) 陌生人
11) 我们怎么了
my answers r quite true..
-(1) is my lucky nos.. my O level no
-(2) not really true
-(3) of course i love my korkor..
-(7) mr vincent lim i love him.. but he is teacher.. so cannot work 101%
-(4) i care most bout baoxin ok ba.. not most..
-(5) janice knows me very well.. tat must ask her..
-(6) persis is my lucky star.. READ HERE!!!
-(8) korkor is superwoman hMmm??
-(9) mr lim is down?? how i know??
-(10) 陌生人 is in my mind.. not really..
-(11) 我们怎么了 is my like now..
no tittle..
nth happen to me tis week..
just got prelims.. hope would be fine..
thanx 4 ur encouraging..
(study HARD 4 exams, so tat it'll be EASY!!)
ya me and shishi is goin thru something secretive..
very secretive.. we r having a SECRET diary..
haha.. if u wanna join us we will let u see what we r writing in the diary.. =P
if not dun kpo k.. haha.. (we both r crazy peeps)..
tis is teamwork.. haha sort of puzzle..
my baobei.. 1yrs old le..
present me and annie bought..
family photo with baobei..
just got prelims.. hope would be fine..
thanx 4 ur encouraging..
(study HARD 4 exams, so tat it'll be EASY!!)
ya me and shishi is goin thru something secretive..
very secretive.. we r having a SECRET diary..
haha.. if u wanna join us we will let u see what we r writing in the diary.. =P
if not dun kpo k.. haha.. (we both r crazy peeps)..
tis is teamwork.. haha sort of puzzle..
my baobei.. 1yrs old le..
present me and annie bought..
family photo with baobei..
Saturday, September 09, 2006
From my mail.. and weekend..
You are intelligent and know what's right. You like to make things go your way, which can sometimes cause trouble for not thinking about other people's feelings. But you're patient when it comes to love. Once you get a hold of the right person, it's hard for you to find a better love.
Also from my mails.. here to say
I LOVE YOU
to all my friends.. =)
ha!! sunday went to har par villa.. for some kinda activiy
Journey To Hell.. heres some pics..
GHOSTS!!!
GROUP PHOTO..
just spot me if u can.. tall ppl stand behind de.. =P
MY BAOBEIs
Also from my mails.. here to say
I LOVE YOU
to all my friends.. =)
ha!! sunday went to har par villa.. for some kinda activiy
Journey To Hell.. heres some pics..
GHOSTS!!!
GROUP PHOTO..
just spot me if u can.. tall ppl stand behind de.. =P
MY BAOBEIs
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